Article #2 - Play Together, Be Together

100 Ways To Make Sure Your Man Will Never Leave You

René Delain – Relationship Coach

Series published fortnightly. 

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#2 – Play Together, Be Together

‘Quick!  Implant yourself into the pleasure and gratifying section of your man’s brain, before technology grabs it.’ 

Life can be quite stressful for the average couple at times, with pressures of daily life such as work, finance, time, and establishing yourself in life at a point you want to be at. Having the ability to take time out and ease the pressure can be a great aid to enhancing wellbeing and building chemistry. Find something that both of you do at least once a fortnight, it may be a sport, join a club or even train- spotting.  Be open to the idea of taking up a new hobby that you previously had no interest in.

Great Team Mates

When two or more people spend time together a natural bond or interpersonal relationship develops, e.g. people on a team, club and family. This is supported by a feeling of positive well-being and security when a certain person is present. Encourage him to teach you about his interest like how to play a sport. Alternately, you could ask if he’d suggest a new activity, it will enhance his masculinity if he is in charge of events. If it’s an activity that you will possibly feel bored about, become creative and make it into an occasion, bring a picnic or even a manual so that you can identify and research areas of interest. He will be grateful that you are engaged.

Give Him Space

Sometimes men and women need ‘nothingness’ in their lives, no deadlines, activities, work; it helps to recharge the body and mind. When you have learned to recognise that your man is in this mode ‘Leave him alone’. Also as your guy becomes more attached to you he may start to question his feelings and put up barriers, becoming ‘emotionally detached’. When this happens try not to push him to interact, give him space to sort out his thoughts, but occasionally just let him know you are there, without overcrowding him; this in turn will show him that you understand him, enable him to relax and he should in turn recognise how good you are for him.

Stability

Developing and nurturing that bond you have with your man will create a pleasure tag in your man’s mind that triggers a feeling of security. Men’s brains appeal to the ‘techno’ aspect of activities whereas women just like the togetherness. If you are able to create the right balance, you will make a ‘great team’ and life for the both of you should provide the fulfilment that you both desire.

Happy Playing  x

Next article arriving in a fortnight is ‘#3 – ‘For Appearance Sake’

Rene Delain, Relationship Coach has created a serious of articles titled ‘100 Ways To Make Sure Your Man Will Never Leave You’.  Published fortnightly.  

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